There comes a day when you no longer feel the need to prove anything to anyone….

“There comes a day when you no longer feel the need to prove anything to anyone. Not because you’ve given up, but because you’ve grown.”

You grow tired — tired of explaining, of justifying, of shrinking yourself to fit into other people’s lives.

Tired of waiting for messages that never come, apologies that never arrive, people who don’t know how to love.

The truth is simple:

Not everyone will understand you.

Not everyone will stay.

Not everyone will treat you the way you deserve.

But they don’t have to.

Because there comes a moment when you choose peace.

You choose silence over reaction.

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What makes a person resilient to Alzheimer’s?

So, returning to a critical question, what makes a person resilient to Alzheimer’s? One factor is referred to as “cognitive reserve,” … The greater the amount of knowledge one has amassed and learned, for example through higher education, the greater the number of synapses in one’s brain. Since the degree of dementia in Alzheimer’s patients correlates most closely with loss of synapses, the more synapses you have, the more you can lose before problems set in. Thus, continuing to learn new things is very important as we age. When planning for your retirement, think just as much about your cognitive reserve as about your financial reserve.

The following recommendations have been shown to have the most useful effects on risk reduction—you’ll recognize them from our general advice for a healing lifestyle, although they are more specific here: 

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