Questioner: How to deal with people?
Maharaj: Why make plans and what for? Such questions show anxiety. Relationship is a living thing. Be at peace with your inner self and you will be at peace with everybody.
Realize that you are not the master of what happens, you cannot control the future except in purely technical matters.
Human relationship cannot be planned, it is too rich and varied.
Just be understanding and compassionate, free of all self-seeking.
Questioner: Surely, I am not the master of what happens. Its slave rather.
Maharaj: Be neither master, nor slave. Stand aloof.