Spirituality
My wisdom belongs to the foolish, my power to the oppressed.
“If there is anything in us, it is not our own; it is a gift of God. But if it is a gift of God, then it is entirely a debt one owes to love, that is, to the law of Christ. And if it is a debt owed to love, then I must serve others with it, not myself. Continue reading
Thought for the Week – 15th September 2014
I will sit on the bank and wait for the moment when everything is clear
There is a beautiful story form Buddha’s life, which discusses the crux of being meditative. Osho has explained it very well in this piece. Worth reading.
“One day Buddha is passing by a forest. It is a hot summer day and he is feeling very thirsty. He says to Ananda, his chief disciple, “Ananda, you go back. Just three, four miles back we passed a small stream of water. You bring a little water — take my begging bowl. I am feeling very thirsty and tired.” He had become old.
Thought of the Week – 8th September 2014
Just two miles
Buddha was moving from one town to another. They had lost their way. They asked a few villagers on the way, “How far until the next town?”
They said, “Just two miles,” as is always said in India. Whether it is fifty miles or twenty miles, it makes no difference; villagers always say, “Just two miles.” Continue reading
We resist transition not because we can’t accept the change, but because we can’t let go of that piece of ourselves that we have to give up
Transition, is the process of letting go of the way things used to be and then taking hold of the way they subsequently become. In between the letting go and the taking hold again, there is a chaotic but potentially creative “neutral zone” when things aren’t the old way, but aren’t really a new way yet either. This three-phase process-ending, neutral zone, beginning again-is transition. Transition is the way that we all come to terms with change. Continue reading
To let go takes Love
To Let Go” doesn’t mean to stop caring it means I can’t do it for someone else.
“To Let Go” is not to cut myself off, it is the realization I can’t control another.
“To Let Go” is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
“To Let Go” is to admit powerlessness which means the outcome is not in my hands.
“To Let Go” is not to try to change or blame another it is to make the most of myself.
“To Let Go” is not to care for but to care about, not to fix but be supportive.
“To Let Go” is not to judge but to allow another to be a human being.
“To Let Go” is to not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow another to affect their own destiny.
“To Let Go” is not to be protective; it is to permit another to face reality.
“To Let Go” is not to deny, but to accept.
“To Let Go” is not to nag, scold, or argue but instead to search out my own shortcomings and to correct them.
“To Let Go” is not to criticize and regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be.
“To Let Go” is not to regret the past but to grow and live for the present and for the future.
“To Let Go” is to fear less, and to love more…”
– Robert Paul Gilles, Jr.





