In order to get off the emotional roller coaster, you will have to give up the fantasy that you can or should change somebody else. When you let go of this belief, you will be able to claim the power that is truly yours : the power to change your self. Continue reading
Personal Development
The “new” river offers water that is filled with possibilities and untapped potential
The ancient Greek philosopher, Heraclitus, who was a contemporary of Confucius, Lao Tsu, and the Buddha, is reported to have said that “you can never walk though the same river twice.” Continue reading
war is not outside, the war is within
……..once you conquer yourself your fight with others ceases immediately – because this fight with others is just a trick to avoid the inner war. Continue reading
Give love and seek no reward
I asked myself at an early age, why does everybody live as though they were on an enormous skating rink? Continue reading
When you thought I wasn’t looking

by Mary Rita Schilke Korzan
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Why Should We Care about Contributing?

1. To be part of something greater than ourselves. Here’s how others have explained it.
“To be a man is to feel that one’s own stone contributes to building the edifice of the world.” (Antoine de Saint Erupery, 1900~1944)
“We are not here to merely make a living. We are here to enrich the world, and we impoverish ourselves if we forget this errand.”
(Woodrow T. Wilson, 1856~1924)
“The purpose of life is not to be happy – but to matter, to be productive, to be useful, to have it make some difference that you have lived at all.” (Leo Rosten, 1908~1997)
“There is no greater calling than to serve your fellow men. There is no greater contribution than to help the weak. There is no greater satisfaction than to have done it well.” (Walter Reuther,1907~1970)
2. We do it for ourselves. Mohandas Gandhi (1869~1948) was laboriously serving the people of a remote village when he was asked why he was doing it.
“Are you doing it for humanitarian reasons?” he was asked.
“Not at all,” Gandhi answered, “I am here to serve no one else than myself, to find my own self-realization through the service of these village folk.”
Every time we help another, we help ourselves, for when we dig another out of their troubles, we find a place to bury our own. Continue reading
First Things First
Please Hear What I’m Not Saying
Don’t be fooled by me. Continue reading
Foundations of one’s spiritual life
Honesty, sincerity, simplicity, humility, pure generosity, absence of vanity, readiness to serve others Continue reading