Book of the Month – May 2025: Unreasonable Hospitality. By Will Guidara

Will Guidara’s Unreasonable Hospitality is nothing short of extraordinary. Our internal company book club recently read it, and it has already sparked dozens of changes in how we approach our work. This book is a masterclass on hospitality, and its lessons go far beyond the restaurant industry. Whether you’re running a business, managing a team, or simply looking for ways to create more meaningful connections, Guidara’s insights are truly game-changing.

Guidara’s storytelling is as captivating as it is inspiring, with unforgettable examples of what happens when you go above and beyond for others. From turning a canceled vacation into a beach-themed dining experience to making snowfall magical for a family, the stories in this book demonstrate how far a little creativity and intentionality can go in transforming ordinary moments into extraordinary ones. What’s even more impactful is how these lessons apply internally—Guidara’s emphasis on recognizing and uplifting team members is a blueprint for building a positive, high-performing culture.

A Neighbour , a Pilgrim, a Pope

A Neighbour , a Pilgrim, a Pope:
In memory of Pope Francis (1936–2025)

Today, the world bids farewell to a gentle giant of spirit.

Pope Francis—the first non-European, Latin American, and Jesuit Pope in the history of the Church—has left this world. His departure, so soon after the sacred silence of Holy Week, feels like the soft closing of a holy chapter.

As a fellow pilgrim born in Buenos Aires, I cannot help but feel this loss in a personal way. As a child, he lived only a few blocks from where I grew up. We were neighbors—one generation apart.

We even supported the same football team: San Lorenzo. Something as simple as that makes the memory even warmer—two believers, two neighbors, two hinchas sharing a thread of belonging beyond doctrine.

And though we never met, I have long considered him kindred.

While I walk the path of Gaudiya Vaishnavism, I do not feel this in opposition to the spirit of Christianity. In fact, I often say—truthfully and openly—that, in essence, I consider myself a Christian too. How could I not be touched by the life and teachings of Jesus, the wounded healer, the teacher who knelt, the lover who loved unto death?

Today, as I write these words, our ashram in North Carolina welcomes a dear friend: Father Cassian, a Catholic priest and monk, who will stay with us for some time. His presence feels especially poignant today, as we mourn and honor one of the most transformative figures in recent Christian history.

Pope Francis dared to break boundaries—geographical, social, and theological. He championed the poor with tenderness and ferocity. He called for an integral ecology, where care for creation is inseparable from care for the vulnerable. His encyclicals Laudato Si’ and Fratelli Tutti were not merely Catholic texts, but universal appeals to conscience, reminding us that the Earth is not only our common home—it is sacred.

He reached toward those whom others overlooked: the divorced, the queer, the imprisoned, the forgotten. He believed that no one stands outside the circle of God’s mercy. And though his efforts were often misunderstood—by conservatives and progressives alike—he kept walking, one foot in the Gospel, the other in the dirt of our time.

He simplified the papacy. He renounced palatial opulence. He cooked his own meals. He asked us to pray for him, always. And he wept when he spoke of war, refugees, or ecological collapse—not as a politician, but as a father. As a brother of humanity.

Of course, like all great souls, he was not without controversy. While I may not agree with every statement he made or stance he took, I firmly believe in honoring the whole of a life, not its isolated parts. I believe in seeing people not merely for their past, nor even their present, but for their luminous future in God’s grace.

To my Christian brothers and sisters: my heart is with you. This is a sacred day of mourning, of reflection, and also of thanksgiving—for a life that mirrored the Beatitudes more than the headlines. May the same Spirit that breathed through him breathe now into your hearts, offering comfort and conviction.

And to those in my own bhakti community: may we dare to learn from such lives. May we embody that same courage to stand with the marginalized, to speak for the voiceless, to see the sacred in soil and in stranger. May we remember that true religion is not performance, but love in action.

Rest well, dear neighbor.
Rest well, holy pilgrim.

Your feet have kissed many roads—and now they’ve returned Home.

🙏- Swami Padmanabha

You have to be unapologetic in the way that you exist here….

Life is meant to be lived. You have to chase the things that ignite you. You have to do the things that bring you joy.

You have to surround yourself with the people who bring you back home to yourself, with the people who respect you and embrace you in ways that make you feel like you are worthy and accepted and loved.

You have to do the work to heal yourself, even when it hurts — especially when it hurts, so that you do not continue to approach your life within the boundary of what is heavy within you.

You have to put yourself out there, and you cannot worry about what other people think, you cannot rob yourself of experience or happiness or inspiration because you are scared of how you will be perceived.

You have to be unapologetic in the way that you exist here. You have to believe that your ideas, and your hope, and your being, deserve to take up space.

You have to believe that you have purpose.

Bianca Sparacino From A Gentle Reminder

Ageing is not for the weak

“Aging is not for the weak. One day you wake up and realize that your youth is gone, but along with it, so go insecurity, haste, and the need to please… You learn to walk more slowly, but with greater certainty. You say goodbye without fear, and you cherish those who stay. Aging means letting go, it means accepting, it means discovering that beauty was never in our skin… but in the story we carry inside us.”
– Meryl Streep

This is a beautiful reflection on aging that touches on several profound truths. The passage eloquently captures how aging brings not just physical changes, but also emotional and spiritual growth – a kind of wisdom that comes from life experience.

I particularly appreciate how it reframes aging as a process of gaining rather than just losing. While youth fades, the text suggests we gain valuable traits like:

  • Self-assurance that replaces insecurity
  • Patience that replaces haste
  • Authenticity that replaces people-pleasing
  • Wisdom in relationships – both in letting go and cherishing
  • A deeper understanding of beauty as something internal rather than external

The metaphor of walking “more slowly, but with greater certainty” is especially powerful – it captures how aging can bring a kind of confident deliberateness that youth often lacks.

Would you say this resonates with your own experiences or observations about aging? I am curious know how this perspective compares with common cultural narratives about getting older.

– One Tusk

WHAT WILL MATTER?

Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end.
There will be no more sunrises, no minutes, hours or days.
All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten will pass to someone else.
Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance.
It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed.

Your grudges, resentments, frustrations and jealousies will finally disappear.
So too, your hopes, ambitions, plans and to-do lists will expire.
The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away.

It won’t matter where you came from or what side of the tracks you lived on at the end.
It won’t matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant.
Even your gender and skin colour will be irrelevant.

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Top of Mind – 29th September 2022

“What we leave behind is not what is engraved on stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.”

Pericles

“Our death is not an end if we live on in our children and the younger generation. For they are us.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Notes to Myself – Bombay Jayashri

The aim and final end of all music should be none other than the glory of God and the refreshment of the soul. by Johann Sebastian Bach
Notes to Myself is one of MOPA’s flagship projects – a series of interactive, expository documentaries that deconstructs the lives and creative processes of some of the most impactful professionals associated with South India’s performing arts. Done in a let-your-hair-down and from-the-heart way, these offer an honest, moving and at times funny and charmingly unguarded look at the lives of these artistes.

This is the voice of Bombay Jayashri, a singer who has performed widely and successfully across genres – Carnatic music, Indian film playback singing, semi-classical music, fusion and more.

Mentality of tolerance builds nations…

THE MAN WHO USED TO URINATE ON MY HEAD WHEN I WAS IN PRISON

Nelson Mandela: “After becoming president, I once asked some members of my close protection to walk with me around the city, to have lunch in one of its restaurants. 

We sat in one of the restaurants in the city centre and all asked for food.”

“After a while the waiter brought us our requests, I noticed that there is someone sitting in front of my table waiting for food”

I then said to one of the soldiers: go ask this person to join us with his food and eat with us. 

The soldier went to ask the man. The man brought his food and sat next to me while I asked him and started eating. 

His hands were constantly shaking until everyone finished their meal and the man left.

The soldier said to me: The man was apparently very ill. His hands were shaking while he ate!”

“No, not at all,” Mandela said.

“This man was the guard of the prison where I was imprisoned.
“Often, after the torture I suffered, I would scream and ask for some water.

“The same man would come every time and urinated on my head. “
“So I found him frightened, trembling, expecting me to reciprocate, at least in the same way, either by torturing him or by imprisoning him as I am now the President of the State of South Africa.”

“But that’s not my character or part of my ethic.”

“The mentality of reprisals destroys states, while the mentality of tolerance builds nations.”

Relationships vs Transactions

Renowned researcher and author Jim Collins makes his second appearance on The Knowledge Project, this time to share a wealth of life lessons learned from his mentor and collaborator, Bill Lazier. Jim recently released BE 2.0 (Beyond Entrepreneurship 2.0), an ambitious upgrade of his first book Beyond Entrepreneurship, co-authored with Lazier and focused on effective leadership style. Shane discusses all new topics with Jim in their follow-up conversation, including what it means to be a mentor and a father, why we should trust by default, why we confuse living a long life with a great life, and the difference between being afraid of risk and being afraid of ambiguity.

( contributed by Justin)