- Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
- Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent. Continue reading
Author: onetusk
Bertrand Russell – to our descendants
Make sure your ego hasn’t put on any weight
Nothing is more beautiful than the love that has weathered the storms of life. . . . The love of the young for the young, that is the beginning of life. But the love of the old for the old, that is the beginning of – of things longer.
– JEROME K. JEROME Continue reading
The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world’s problem
“You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.”
“The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world’s problem.” Continue reading
Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives
The story of the butterfly Continue reading
Dialogue is more than wishy-washy, feel good comaradarie
For the vast majority of us, debate is familiar because we live in debate cultures (of what Deborah Tannen calls ‘argument cultures’). Continue reading
Matt Ridley: When ideas have sex
A radical change in society
In bringing about a radical change in the human being, in you, you are naturally bringing about a radical change in the structure and the nature of society. Continue reading
How Change Doesn’t Happen
Picture an egg. Day after day, it sits there. No one pays attention to it. No one notices it. Certainly no one takes a picture of it or puts it on the cover of a celebrity-focused business magazine. Then one day, the shell cracks and out jumps a chicken.

All of a sudden, the major magazines and newspapers jump on the story: “Stunning Turnaround at Egg!” and “The Chick Who Led the Breakthrough at Egg!” From the outside, the story always reads like an overnight sensation — as if the egg had suddenly and radically altered itself into a chicken.
Now picture the egg from the chicken’s point of view.
While the outside world was ignoring this seemingly dormant egg, the chicken within was evolving, growing, developing — changing. From the chicken’s point of view, the moment of breakthrough, of cracking the egg, was simply one more step in a long chain of steps that had led up to that moment. Granted, it was a big step — but it was hardly the radical transformation that it looked like from the outside.
It’s a silly analogy — but then our conventional way of looking at change is no less silly. Everyone looks for the “miracle moment” when “change happens.” But ask the good-to-great executives when change happened. They cannot pinpoint a single key event that exemplified their successful transition.
– – Jim Collins author of ‘Good to Great’