“Being” as an Alternative to “Doing”

Now, nobody is suggesting that we give up “Doing” mode altogether. If this were the case, we would never even find our keys to get out the front door. However, there is another way of being that many of us are not even aware of, and that is “Being” Mode. Unlike its counterpart, “Being” mode is not action-oriented, evaluative, or future-focused. It involves slowing down our minds and deliberately grounding ourselves by focusing on what we are experiencing right now. Continue reading

The necessity of understanding ourselves….

We do not see the importance, the significance, of exploring ourselves directly, not according to any idea, pattern, or teacher. Continue reading

What Makes a Person Shine?

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What separates people who feel fulfilled from those who suffer with regret? Here’s a hint: it isn’t money in the bank, fame, trophies, or rank, as much as those may matter. Many people don’t finish first but nonetheless achieve greatness and long will be remembered, while many who do finish first will never be called great and will soon tumble into oblivion. Continue reading

The Sec­ond Half of Life

The first half of life is a time of accu­mu­la­tion: acquir­ing knowl­edge, learn­ing skills, gain­ing expe­ri­ence, rais­ing a fam­ily, build­ing a career. But in the sec­ond half, the expe­ri­ence of our ear­lier years should bring the wis­dom to know what is impor­tant and the desire to con­cen­trate on what mat­ters most. Continue reading

Lateral Thinkers

Some three decades ago, Edward De Bono related a story in his book on the Use of Lateral  Thinking. The story went something like this – Continue reading