Questions for Inner Reflection

Looking backward — Where were you a decade ago? What were you like, who were your friends, and what were your hopes and dreams? If someone had asked you then where you’d be in ten years, what would you have said — and are you where you wanted to be?

Looking forward (the reframe) — Instead of “Where will I be in ten years?”, ask: How am I going to live the next ten years of my life? How am I going to live today in order to create the tomorrow I’m committed to?

On values and priorities — What am I going to stand for from now on? What’s important to me right now, and what will be important to me in the long term?

On action — What actions can I take today that will shape my ultimate destiny?

On identity and contribution — Ten years from now you’ll arrive somewhere, as someone, doing something: Where will you be? Who will you have become? How will you be living? What will you be contributing?

The closing gut-check — When you look back on the 2020s, will you be pleased or perturbed? Delighted, or disturbed?

Summarised from Awaken the Giant Within by Anthony Robbins

So, what do you want to be when you grow up?

Habit 2 – Begin with the End in Mind

Focus time and energy on things that can be controlled.

So, what do you want to be when you grow up? That question may appear a little trite, but think about it for a moment. Are you–right now–who you want to be, what you dreamed you’d be, doing what you always wanted to do? Be honest. Sometimes people find themselves achieving victories that are empty–successes that have come at the expense of things that were far more valuable to them. If your ladder is not leaning against the right wall, every step you take gets you to the wrong place faster. 

80th Birthday
Your most important work is always ahead of you, never behind you. - Stephen Covey