The necessity of understanding ourselves….

We do not see the importance, the significance, of exploring ourselves directly, not according to any idea, pattern, or teacher. Continue reading

The Sec­ond Half of Life

The first half of life is a time of accu­mu­la­tion: acquir­ing knowl­edge, learn­ing skills, gain­ing expe­ri­ence, rais­ing a fam­ily, build­ing a career. But in the sec­ond half, the expe­ri­ence of our ear­lier years should bring the wis­dom to know what is impor­tant and the desire to con­cen­trate on what mat­ters most. Continue reading

Death: Life’s change agent

Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Continue reading

Our everyday actions speak for themselves…

Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love. 
– SAINT FRANCIS OF ASSISI Continue reading

Perspective and Distance

There are no exact guidelines. There are probably no guidelines at all. The only thing I can recommend at this stage is a sense of humor, an ability to see things in their ridiculous and absurd dimensions, to laugh at others and at ourselves, a sense of irony regarding everything that calls out for parody in this world.  Continue reading

How a Zen Master Transforms His Fear

Osho quote, Zen, Earthquakes, Disaster

“It happened that a Zen master was invited as a guest. A few friends had gathered and they were eating and talking when suddenly there was an earthquake. The building that they were sitting in was a seven story building, and they were on the seventh story so life was in danger. Everybody tried to escape. The host, running by, looked to see what had happened to the master. He was there with not even a ripple of anxiety on his face. Continue reading

The Never Ending Quest

“At each stage of human existence the adult man is off on his quest of his holy grail, the way of life he seeks by which to live. Continue reading

Trust

“A man just got married and was returning home with his wife. They were crossing a lake in a boat when suddenly a great storm arose. The man was a warrior, but the woman became very much afraid because it seemed almost hopeless — THE BOAT WAS SMALL AND THE STORM WAS REALLY HUGE, AND ANY MOMENT THEY WERE GOING TO BE DROWNED. Continue reading